Live in Boulder 2016 -

Live in Boulder 2016




Part I
0:00 The pocket of the moment, the content of the moment, and consciousness
9:30 The dynamics of conversation between the Masculine and Feminine
12:25 Even the most loving, open Masculine person prefers nothing to something
14:30 When you feel into the flow fully, you are moved by an intelligence much larger than you
19:55 No matter how present your Masculine partner is, it will never be enough
21:35 The inherent tension between the Masculine and Feminine
23:50 The way the Masculine and Feminine actively sabotage life
28:43 All beings have two purposes
32:30 The correct posture of life
39:30 A feminine practice for staying in the pocket of the moment
45:05 A two-bodied practice of the one recognizing itself
47:50 If you had no fears, what would you do? How would you love?
51:00 Feel your fears completely and embrace Her sabotage
54:54 She wants to feel the depth of your consciousness
58:20 Offering your deepest yearning
59:55 The nature of the Feminine

Part II
1:50 It’s the time of woman now
7:00 Men learn to do nothing impeccably
11:15 The one place he will never lose value
19:45 Trusting the spontaneous expression of consciousness in the world
25:00 Burkas, invisibility and the First-Stage need to be noticed
32:18 Giving yourself to idiots hurts
35:00 The Feminine has a habit of falling in love with people’s potential
39:14 Cosmic anger energy
40:30 Third-Stage is being in what is with no resistance
45:42 Change the flow of her water
46:38 Impact of your breath on her
49:10 To him, you talking is a mistake
53:10 The only reason the masculine does anything is because there is some form of feminine attraction to it

Part III
3:10 How a man runs his life speaks to the depth of his consciousness
5:45 You trust his discrimination and he trusts your flow of energy
9:10 The Third-Stage expression of claiming a woman
11:30 The more polarized a Feminine being becomes, the harder it is to make a good decision
15:02 Purpose as reaction to the external versus from the heart
16:22 Path to discovering your deeper purpose
18:46 Most Masculine people can’t love until they are living their purpose
21:36 Most Feminine people can’t live purpose until their relationship is on track
25:35 The Third-Stage is what’s left when you haven’t committed suicide yet
33:16 What the Masculine experiences as nothingness, the Feminine experiences as fullness
34:46 Unobstructed fullness
37:00 The more whole you are, the less sexually interesting you are
42:00 Resting in Third-Stage helplessness
44:00 Getting Masculine energy without breaking hearts
45:21 Cultivating getting fucked by God
48:00 She is born to destroy your program
52:25 Dissolving the need to ejaculate
59:00 All she wants is friction
59:30 Consciously sculpt conflict so your woman doesn’t do it for you

“Within intimacy, fully connect heart to heart and open beyond yourselves, feeling the infinite mystery that all of this is.”

— From “His Freedom Her Love,” a talk by David Deida